Plastic surgery: vanity or sanity?
May 19, 2011
Fifty-one year old model Diana Solomon refuses to date anyone younger than 35, rejecting the 25-year-old men that pursue her. Following her divorce, she cried daily and had trouble getting out of bed. Then she had Fraxel laser treatments to smooth out facial wrinkles, an injectable filler to plump her lips and Botox to smooth her brow. Now, she is back on the dating scene, attracting men like flies.
The media has labeled this “revenge surgery,” but these women are simply moving on. Solomon’s dermatologist, who has also weathered a divorce that made her feel unattractive and unlovable says, “It’s not about vanity, it’s about sanity.”
The need to feel better about oneself following divorce cuts across all socioeconomic boundaries. Pragmatic women choose cosmetic surgery over a therapist’s couch and a box of Kleenex.
They say that “beauty comes from within.” Well, your mother is right; it does. But to see the inner beauty, you’ve got to get past the façade, which may or may not need an overhaul. Sometimes the overhaul is psychological. If you lack the courage to present yourself in a dating situation, your inner beauty will forever be unseen. Fine tuning, at the hands of a plastic surgeon or dermatologist, may be what you need to regain your confidence.
The New York Post, April 11, 2011, interviewed recently divorced women, including a children’s book writer, aesthetician, home-care agency nurse, teacher and divorce attorney. Post-divorce plastic surgery had enabled each woman to date again. The children’s book writer regained her feelings of femininity with liposuction of her stomach, flanks, jaw and neck. The aesthetician with a chest like two walnuts in a pair of socks had breast augmentation.
It’s no surprise that angry estranged husbands, footing all or part of the bill, think plastic surgery is a means to attract a new man. They’re absolutely right. If you have a physical characteristic that keeps you from reentering the dating game, contact a board-certified plastic surgeon at the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery.
The American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS), is recognized as the world’s leading organization devoted entirely to aesthetic plastic surgery and cosmetic medicine of the face and body. ASAPS is comprised of over 2,600 Plastic Surgeons; active members are certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery (USA) or by the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada and have extensive training in the complete spectrum of surgical and non-surgical aesthetic procedures. International active members are certified by equivalent boards of their respective countries. All members worldwide adhere to a strict Code of Ethics and must meet stringent membership requirements.
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